Everyone starts somewhere.
Except for the extremely fortunate ones like Theodore Roosevelt, and the extremely unfortunately ones like Abraham Lincoln, most of us begin life simply average.
What it comes down to is what course of life we choose for ourselves.
Most decide without having to decide that they would play the game run by the house. The house’s rules are their bread and butter. That’s how they fit in, to feel safe and secure. What it also implies is that the society demands that they strive to go to the best of the best since kindergarten, so they are ahead at every single step. They even have to have the best burial plot.
Usually this is a particular crop of exceptional test-takers, overachievers, IQ lottery winners. Statistically speaking, they are still the minority. They won because it’s in their factory default mode.
The prospect for the rest of us seems gloomier than ever. We’re unhappy, unsatisfied, uninspired. Because we are never going to be able to reach the shiny object that seems just a tad out of reach.
That leaves us to the last thing we can control: what we choose for our career. The sure-thing careers are lawyer and doctor. If you happen to love these jobs, then hooray! If you graduate with a student loan, once you are in practice, your future immediately becomes a sure-thing even if your work ethics is just moderate.
Now, what if you are like me, who dreams to be a writer, not in your next life, but right here right now in your current body?
What I can say from my own experience is that graduating from Francis Coppola’s UCLA Film School doesn’t guarantee you the sure thing. Getting picked by a top-notch Hollywood producer when I was still in film school doesn’t get you to your end goal.
The truth is, if you get into the film industry to feel secure, you should get the hell out before you set your foot in. The film industry is the last industry that would give you that. You have to earn it for yourself. Word by word. Script by script. Day after day. Night after night…
But if you do enjoy and admire a good story, maybe you would appreciate working above-the-line in the film industry.
Don’t tell me, surprise me.