But when I meditate in the morning, the message is always something different. Today it says: When we let go of all expectation, there is peace. So I took a deep breath. And settled in.
I re-started meditation in May.
Today I was told that I am on a 83-day streak. My longest was 91. So eight days away to set a new record. I hope I would just keep going.
I was doing meditation even when my Chinese family of four was here from December to February.
But my auntie fell sick only six days before their trip back to China, right on my 30th birthday. Her face was so swollen that she could barely open her eyes and she was running a fever. I stayed with her in hospital for the first night trying to get to the bottom of the cause.
Long story short. Auntie’s symptoms were relieved. The family went back to China on time. My dad and I even went to the Staples Center for the LA Lakers v. Dallas Mavericks game on Friday night when auntie was discharged late that afternoon, two days before they flew back on Feb 25.
Then, the insurance coverage. I was the middleman for the Ronald Regan Hospital and the Chinese Insurance Company. Roughly a month later, the insurance company confirmed that they would cover the staggering $36,000 hospital bill. By then, I was bone tired.
- Yesterday in the mailbox, I got a Final Notice from the hospital, staying that they still hadn’t got the rest of the money wire. I have until Aug 8 to fix it.
- The communication gap between the insurance company and the hospital bureaucrat is appalling. As if sending me those bills, the niece of the patient can solve the problem for her. The insurance company already paid for the 1st half. Shouldn’t she keep talking to the insurance company?
- I had to stop myself from digging into this rabbit hole, from getting worked up.
Since my family’s left, I felt a huge void.
Plus, I was anxious about the work visa (H-1B) lottery result, my work prospect with the company, whether I was a liability or an asset, and when my boss would send the office manager to break the news to me.
As of June 1, I’m not allowed to be paid anymore. My parents once again showed me just how diehard they are to keep investing in me, regardless of my poor ROI.
If I were the hero of my own movie, I feel the stakes keep rising. I need to prove my worth to the immigration board next year to get the artist visa (O-1)…
But every morning I switch on the coffee maker, sit on my couch, and meditate, I get a different voice.
Today it says:
When we let go of all expectation, there is peace.
– Kim Eng
So I took a deep breath and settled in.